Well, i think i have forgotten how to conduct and experiment or something because i've left psyc for 2 years at least for now. But i would love to talk about the correlation for pretty girls and their self esteem. I am not generalising, but that is what in my mind.
Pretty girls are welcome everywhere(almost), just look at your boyfriend which direction is he looking when a pretty girl or a bunch of girls walked into the shops or the place you both were at. For sure 99.99% of the guys will look at the girl/s. why because basically guys are horny(just saying out for fun to satisfy female, and because the attraction of both sexuality. Well, this is not what i want to talk about, to get deeper into the topic, i would like to talk about, the pretty chicks self-esteem.
Girls CARE for their physical appearences. From the up to the bottom down, from their head up down to their legs. In the other words, girls(especially pretty gals). Why is that, maybe you guys should check it out. : )
Look, when u are attractive, everyone start talking bout your physical appearences and it becomes your identity." Damn, look at the PRETTY gal". See the emphasize on the word 'pretty'. It BECAME your IDENTITY. They mention your looks, they will tell you how pretty you are, everywhere you go, they talk about it. But MORE importantly, the more you hear it, and the more you think about it, the more you begin to realize that there are OTHER women that are MORE attractive than you. You always think about it because it comes into topics, and you keep thinking about it.
Look, women will automatically look into the mirrors if they passes by any(well, i did that too but its for tidyness). If they feel unsatisfied, they will approach the nearest washroom and tidy up themselves, or to make up. Since look is the most important thing for them because thye always think about it.
When a women with bigger breasts passes them by, they would most likely to think, " if i got a bigger boobs, it would be better"
If a thin women pass by, they would be most likely to think, " i will look much more better if i am slimmer"
Or even the hair colours of the lady theat walk pass them, she will starts to wonder whether her color was right.
These kind of things TRIGGERS insecurity everytime it happens. These kind of things get worse the more the attractive a woman is....
Now, imagine a woman that got a 'average look'If your looks are "average", you don't hear about them so much.Your looks aren't the topic of every conversation. Your looks aren't your "identity" the way they are for the beautiful girl.
And since you don't think about your looks as much, and don't talk about your looks as much, you don't feel that deep insecurity as often when an attractive woman walks by. Reality can be pretty weird sometimes. It's different for each of us. You can put a beautiful woman in a room with 100 guys who all think she's the hottest thingthey've ever seen... but she'll still feel like "nothing special" and that she looks horrible that evening and she will be thinking about how one of her girlfriends just got a boob job and how insecure she feels now because guys look at those new boobs a lot.
The reality of THIS situation is that very few women have the "whole package". The combination of looks, personality, emotional stability, and intelligence is RARE.
As a result, the more attractive the girl is, the more she has a sense of INSECURITY, thus, lead to a lower self-esteem.
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i'm not belongs to the pretty range
"The reality of THIS situation is that very few women have the "whole package". The combination of looks, personality, emotional stability, and intelligence is RARE"
Erm..for the package...
i guess my points for each of it---quite ok what...
Aiya...am i a bit too "ai"?
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